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Fox Eros
Jun 24, 20245 min read
Pride Season and Your Mental Health
Angel loves, I'm so happy to share this resource guide. This was written in honor of Pride and your mental health... for my favorite...
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Fox Eros
May 16, 20242 min read
Spicing Up Your Relationships in Polyamory
Oh me oh my it can absolutely be wonderful to see people loving on your lovers! However, if your relationship is feeling neglected,...
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Fox Eros
May 7, 20243 min read
Boundaries & People Pleasing in Polyamory
People pleasing or fawning is a tender trait to be handled with care and curiosity. iIt can happen on such a low-key level we may not...
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Fox Eros
May 7, 20242 min read
When Polyamory Feels Too Fast
Aieeeeee but it hurts… but I want it…. but why does my heart bleed? Sometimes we’re just going too fast loves. Here’s some love &...
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Fox Eros
May 7, 20242 min read
Healing in Sex Therapy
What I love about sex therapy is the initial assessment. It brings into context all that impacts our precious bodies, brains and souls....
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Fox Eros
May 7, 20242 min read
Ruminating Anxious Thoughts in Polyamory
Ruminating thoughts in polyamory (looping anxiety inducing thoughts that feel like they won’t stop) can feel sticky and unsettling. It’s...
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Fox Eros
May 7, 20242 min read
Building Safety and Security in Polyamory
Polyamory can rattle us the way monogamy never did! It can shake our presumed secure attachment and even morph it into an insecure one...
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Fox Eros
May 7, 20242 min read
The Perfect Polyamorist Doesn't Exist
Our culture’s sense of urgency and perfectionism has seeped its dirty little hands into our hearts, minds and relationships and I won’t...
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Fox Eros
May 7, 20242 min read
A Love Letter to The People Pleaser Inside Me
A love letter to the people pleaser inside us... Do you know the people pleaser / fawner / I’ll do what you want / please love me / do...
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Fox Eros
May 7, 20242 min read
Self-Worth and Feeling Insecure in Polyamory
Humans are precious. Our hearts are tender and when we are vulnerable we open ourselves to both feelings of love and pain. And this is...
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Fox Eros
May 7, 20242 min read
Polysaturated - How Many Lovers is too Many?
So much love to give, so little time. Even adding one extra relationship can feel overwhelming to an already busy life. When I even think...
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Fox Eros
May 7, 20242 min read
Polyamory And Cheating
Polyamory is a relationship structure that goes beyond just two people. It is based on consent meaning everyone knows, everyone agrees...
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Fox Eros
Feb 7, 20241 min read
Crushes & Fantasies in Polyamory
I have experienced monogamy and polyamory and regardless of my chosen relationship structure, I have always felt the erotic energy we...
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Fox Eros
Feb 1, 20241 min read
Remember Your Pleasure?
Pleasure is my goal this year. Enchant me, love me, flirt with me, see me, hear me, let me expand into my Self thru your reflection of...
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Fox Eros
Jan 29, 20241 min read
Have You Ever Felt Poly-Aroused?
I felt this buzzing excitement the other day at the thought of my Lover being pursued and touched by someone else and I wanted to do...
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Fox Eros
Dec 31, 20232 min read
It's a Prioritize Your Self New Year
New year, New me. Nah. Let’s release that pressure and instead manifest that pleasure. What will you do that feels good, delicious,...
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Fox Eros
Sep 6, 20232 min read
Lower & Higher Desire Sex Drives
In my work as a therapist helping people with intimacy in their relationships I find that when there is desire discrepancy (someone has a...
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Fox Eros
Sep 6, 20231 min read
Exploring Polyamory For The First Time
In theory polyamory can feel like this beautiful shiny liberating and magical place to land and be loved. Yessss I love that! And also in...
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Fox Eros
Aug 4, 20232 min read
The Authority We Hold Over Self & Our Healing
The Ancestors do not play. Energy, spirituality, religion, a higher power, God/Goddess, Jesus, Allah, Life Force, the one you call...
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Fox Eros
Jul 20, 20232 min read
Jealousy vs. Attachment in Polyamory
Sometimes jealousy can feel so uncomfortable, chaotic, unsettling, even painful… as if we are coming apart at the seams. And sometimes in...
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