Oh me oh my it can absolutely be wonderful to see people loving on your lovers! However, if your relationship is feeling neglected,...

People pleasing or fawning is a tender trait to be handled with care and curiosity. iIt can happen on such a low-key level we may not...

Aieeeeee but it hurts… but I want it…. but why does my heart bleed? Sometimes we’re just going too fast loves. Here’s some love &...

Ruminating thoughts in polyamory (looping anxiety inducing thoughts that feel like they won’t stop) can feel sticky and unsettling. It’s...

Polyamory can rattle us the way monogamy never did! It can shake our presumed secure attachment and even morph it into an insecure one...

Our culture’s sense of urgency and perfectionism has seeped its dirty little hands into our hearts, minds and relationships and I won’t...

Humans are precious. Our hearts are tender and when we are vulnerable we open ourselves to both feelings of love and pain. And this is...

So much love to give, so little time. Even adding one extra relationship can feel overwhelming to an already busy life. When I even think...

Polyamory is a relationship structure that goes beyond just two people. It is based on consent meaning everyone knows, everyone agrees...

I have experienced monogamy and polyamory and regardless of my chosen relationship structure, I have always felt the erotic energy we...

I felt this buzzing excitement the other day at the thought of my Lover being pursued and touched by someone else and I wanted to do...

In theory polyamory can feel like this beautiful shiny liberating and magical place to land and be loved. Yessss I love that! And also in...

Sometimes jealousy can feel so uncomfortable, chaotic, unsettling, even painful… as if we are coming apart at the seams. And sometimes in...

What is your reason for your Polyamory? There may be many reasons for your “WHY”…. and also you don’t even need a reason! As long as...

When we have many Lover(s) we may have more to consider with talking about our plans for safer sex. We know that society / parents /...

If you are new to and beginning to explore polyamory you may want to ask yourself what your “why” is. This can open your mind to the...

Ruminating is the act of dwelling and over thinking while your Beloved(s) is out with their Lover(s)… and for some can feel upsetting as...

“OMG you’re Poly?! Aren’t you jealous all the time?!” The topic of jealousy is the most common one discussed when people inquire about...

Sometimes when relationships open up to polyamory, they move quickly because this new opening up to love and life sounds so exciting....