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Online Polyamory & Non-Monogamy Therapy in California | Queer & Sex-Positive
Los Angeles, San Francisco & Across California

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Navigating Polyamory with Care and Compassion

Being in multiple relationships can be expansive, fulfilling and deeply meaningful—but it can also bring complexity, jealousy, and uncertainty. Many therapy spaces aren’t trained to support polyamory or non-monogamy. With expertise and a certification in CNM relationships, I offer online polyamory therapy in California for clients exploring ethical non-monogamy, queer relationships and open relationships.
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My approach is compassionate, sex-positive, and non-judgmental—creating a space where you can explore your desires, boundaries and connections safely. I work with clients across California, including Los Angeles, San Francisco, Oakland, Sacramento, San Diego and surrounding communities.
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You Might Be Here If You’re Seeking Online Therapy…

  • You are polyamorous or exploring non-monogamy and want support managing communication, boundaries, or jealousy

  • You’re new to ethical non-monogamy and want guidance establishing agreements or structures

  • You’re exploring how your identity intersects with your relationship choices

  • You feel tension, guilt, or shame around desire, sex, or your relationship configuration

  • You want a Therapist experienced in polyamory, queer relationships and ethical non-monogamy
     

Therapy for Polyamory Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All
Every polyamorous experiences are unique. My approach is collaborative, relational, and trauma-informed. Through online therapy, we’ll explore the dynamics shaping your relationships, help you communicate effectively and navigate challenges while supporting joy, desire and connection.
 
Areas of focus include:

  • Navigating jealousy and compersion

  • Exploring attachment styles with compassion to rebuild security and safety 

  • Setting and maintaining boundaries in multiple relationships

  • Communicating openly and ethically with Partners

  • Negotiating agreements and expectations

  • Exploring sexual and emotional desires

  • Healing shame or past relational trauma
     

Finding the Right Fit Matters: It's important to find a Therapist that aligns with you.
 
We may be a good fit if:

  • You want to approach polyamory or ethical non-monogamy with care and intention

  • You’re open to reflecting on your experiences and patterns

  • You value consent, communication, and accountability in your relationships

  • You’re looking for support navigating emotions, boundaries, and agreements

  • You’re interested in personal growth, emotional regulation and deeper connection


This space may not be the best fit if:

  • There is current physical or emotional abuse / harm in your relationship

  • You’re not open to exploring your role in relationship dynamics

  • You’re hoping therapy will focus primarily on changing others

  • You’re engaging in non-monogamy without clear consent or communication

  • You’re not ready to reflect on how your actions impact your relationships

  • When there has been infidelity—and accountability or readiness for repair is not yet present
     

I share this with care as therapy works best when there is resonance. If you’re a good fit, I provide understanding, guidance, and tools. If not, I can recommend other clinicians who may be a more supportive match. 
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A Polyamory Therapist Who Already Gets It
In my online therapy practice across California, you have a space to explore your feelings, strengthen communication, and create relationship structures that reflect your values, heart, and desires. You won’t need to explain or defend your relationships—this is a place of understanding, compassion, and support.


I also work with straight and monogamous clients who want a more expansive, honest, and open approach to intimacy—while my expertise lies is in polyamory, queer relationships and sex-positive therapy.
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Beginning Polyamory Therapy in California
Finding the right therapist matters. If this work resonates with you, I invite you to reach out.
I offer online therapy across California, and you’re welcome to book a free 15-minute consultation to see if we feel like a good fit.

Reclaim your self-worth, pleasure, and peace of mind with
queer-affirming, poly-friendly therapy in California.

~ With Love, Fox Eros

Fox Eros MacLachlan, LMFT 161302

* Land Acknowledgment - I honor the land I am on of the Chumash and Gabrielino-Tongva peoples

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Offering Online Therapy in San Francisco, Los Angeles & Across California

© 2025 by Fox Eros, Fox Eros in Love, The Polyamory Therapist is a division of
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